If we lack a health self-image, we will attract either no one at all, a fixer-upper who wants to invest time and energy in changing us, or someone who, (like us), doesn't have a very healthy self-image. What a combination that makes! Two people who share the same distaste for life.
Ralph Waldo Emerson tells us, "If you want a friend you must be a friend." If you want love, you must embody and express love, now. If you want to live a prosperous life, embody the idea of prosperity and dare to express the consciousness of prosperity now.
The best approach to shaping our lives is to first accept our enough-ness and then decide what we want to experience, be it health, happiness, love or rewarding work. Next, we set out to embody the end result. This is called the development of consciousness. We can experience only what we have developed in our own minds.
~Dr. David Walker, excerpt from; "You Are Enough" 2007